The dating world is really a rough areana for black women…(slight rant)

now I know that’s a broad generalization but from my perspective its nearly impossible for me to get a guy to really see me for what I am and not just a sex object(this is the plight for every woman though) statistically Black women are less likely to get married. if you google the least desired race to date black women and asian men come up. Now what’s funny about this is that black guys can literally pick and choose who they want and can date the rainbow. Black men have preferences also, but let a black woman have a preference and people would tell her she’s being too picky! Basically that’s saying “hey you better take what comes your way and thank your lucky stars” I’ve always dated/hooked up with guys outside of my race, predominately Asian men and White men, My longest relationship was for 3.5years with a Korean-American. I feel as though media has really just ruined a lot of peoples perception of black women. Like we’ve got A$sap Rocky telling us only fair complexioned(light skin) black women should wear red lipstick and Waka Flocka telling us that black women are out of style….unfortunately fools like these guys do get into the heads of the young people that listen to them. Rap songs constantly glorify “exotic” women or mixed women, yet I’ve known tons of beautiful women who have rich dark complexions, but to find one in a music video is like playing Where’s Waldo… even in the strip clubs the girls with lighter skin or that are of other races don’t have to usually work as hard because they’re already an ideal complexion… almost white. I’m preparing to do a social experiment and I’ll be sure to let you all know how this all goes but honestly this is just getting to be ridiculous…